"Manners are the oils that wheel society." She pauses, realizing that to him, that must just sound like some canned saying, and tried a different approach.

"...Right now we could all use to be a little bit more gentle with each other. Right now, we need to not be...not let it all fall apart more than ever."

And that's why it is important. Because right now it is harder to treat each other well. Which means they should be working harder at it.

"I don't really imagine you'd want to stay here. Didn't imagine it."